As a spankee you can like spankings, enjoy them, know you need them. But still a disciplinary spanking is not somethng you want or aim to get. I like the fact that I get disciplinary spankings, I don’t enjoy the spankings themselves though. If you were to enjoy a disciplinary spanking you should ask yourself, does it still work as discipline?
A good disciplinary spanking teaches you a lesson, it hurts and you want t make sure you don’t earn another one for quite some time. At first te embarrassment and sting should be enough t teach you that lesson. But if youre into spanking, if you get spanked often, not only for discipline, but for fun as well, then a disciplinary spanking should be more severe to make sure it is still discipline.
I don’t cry for fun or erotic spankings. When I got my first disciplinary spankings I didn’t cry either, my eyes would tear up becaue I felt bad, the emotions almost pouring out. Now that my bottom is used to more and the spankings more severe to compensate I can no longer always keep the tears in. It feels better than it used to really, really letting the emotions out. It is a difficult subject, crying, some spankees fear it, would never want that, but if you desire discipline, then there’s nothing better than some tears to let it all out. The first time I cried my spanker immediately stopped, he thought he had gone too far. Now he almost never stops before he sees me crying, he knows I need it, that I will thank him for it, later.
So if someone asks me if I cry when I get spanked for discipline, I say yes. Not because it hurts so much, but becauoe all the emotions, shame, embarrasment, humiliation want to come out all at once. My spanker should comfort me when it’s all over. Some spanker refuse sex after a disciplinary spanking, to make a difference between discipline and fun. But for me the difference is the emotions and severuty of the spanking. Sex is a good way to comfort you, to make you feel better, to show your spankee how much you love her even after she did something wrong and you had to punish her. After your punishment all should be forgivven, so why not comfort her in the bedroom…